I can’t help you, I’m sorry.
If you are not able to say that to the negative people in your life, it means you have not worked hard enough on your own development.
I have been through hell, and I have managed with prayer and hard work to pull myself out of there inch by inch. You can not tell me it can not be done.
I did it on my own, and God is my witness.
And now you expect me to allow negative energy and laziness into my life?
No way!
The lifeguards learn that if they are trying to save someone from drowning and the victim does not calm down and listen, they need to punch the victim in the face because if they don’t, the victim is going to pull them under with them, and it is always better to have only one person drawing instead of two.
I have learned this technique well.
Don’t get me wrong; we all can use some help, and I love helping people as long as they want to help themselves. But if we have conversations about life and I tell you what I have done to improve mine and you refuse to do anything about yours, and every time we meet, I find you in the same place complaining – you get punched in the face, metaphorically.
It is not that hard to improve your life; you just don’t want to do it because discipline is boring.
Pray every day, morning and evening, read, write in a journal, go to the gym, drink plenty of water, be mindful of what you eat, and be aware of whom you spend your time with and how.
There. Life improved.
But you don’t want to do it. You want to come around me and suck the life out of me with your laziness and negativity.
Fuck you, and have a nice day!
Drown if you want to drown; I’m not going down with you.
Kaabooom, punched in the nose!
I am not answering your calls anymore. I have disappeared from the face of the earth for you. When or if we meet again by chance, I will tell you exactly why I have disappeared and why I cut you out of my life.
Hopefully, that will be the last trigger you need to start improving.
“Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
If you don’t understand that quote, I don’t want you in my life.
Period.
With love, yours truly, Cristian.