Albert Einstein used to say that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
If you want good people in your life, you will have to become one first.
Doesn’t it seem funny to you that we all are waiting or asking for our soulmate while doing nothing to improve ourselves to become someone’s soulmate?
Doesn’t it seem funny that we all demand good friends but never focus on becoming one?
A wise man once said: “Your charm and beauty will last you for about 15 minutes. After that, you better have something to say.”
If, right now, like magic, your soul mate appears out of nowhere and swipes you off your feet, what would you say after 15 minutes? Why should your soulmate stay with you after 15 minutes?
We live in a culture where packaging and marketing seem to be more important than the product. Or, at least, that is what social media is trying to sell us.
The only problem with that is that good people are not buying.
Marriages last less and less. Good men seem to disengage entirely because they have had their hearts broken way too many times by “strong” women.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Be brave and become one of the good ones. Become part of the solution in this generation.
With time and after some tests from God and life, you will have your people around you.
Like I tell my daughter, everything is better when you share it.
Pain.
Love.
Wine.
Food.
A home.
Dreams.
With love, yours truly, Cristian.