Dating … Man, is it rough out here, or what? Sometimes, it feels like walking through a minefield. Wherever you walk, something goes off. A walking red flag is searching for another red flag. From my experience as a 38-year-old divorced man, I can genuinely say that dating at my age is the greatest ego…
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It hurts, I know. Pressure creates diamonds, and the pain is fuel. You asked for something. You asked to make a difference. Everything has a price. Is it too expensive? You are alone, and you feel lonely? You look around yourself and see all of your former friends progressing while you seem stuck in a…
Alone again.
Alone again. Stuck in your head, and it’s like the ultimate war between heaven and hell. “You are not going to make it” – screams out the devil while listing all your memories of how you screwed up again and again. All the skeletons out of your closet rush up into your mind. The memories…
Overplaying.
Maybe you are overplaying your hand. Pressure is a good thing; it creates diamonds, but putting unnecessary pressure on yourself is pointless. I put unnecessary pressure on myself by living, in my mind, in the past or the future. When I return to the present moment, everything is fine—not necessarily good, but okay. Two ways…
We trust.
Let life touch you; don’t let it kill you, but let it touch you. This beautiful quote by Jim Roh carries so much weight and wisdom. How many times have you tried to drown the pain and existential suffering that you carry just to find out that it floats? It fucking floats. Turn around and…
No Kingdom.
It’s a paradox of our modern world- never before have people been so comfortable yet so burdened by their egos, leading to a unique form of suffering. Everywhere you turn, you encounter individuals who perceive themselves as kings and queens, a testament to the pervasiveness of self-importance in our society. We are so ‘in love’…
The Boss.
A “Boss” is usually behind the pack in a chariot, devouring spoils and resources he did not put any real effort into acquiring with a whip in their hand. The leader is not just in front of the pack, but also guiding and supporting the team, ensuring things get done. That is the monumental difference….
Become a Hero.
Dr. Peterson, Please, with all due respect, I am begging you to stop telling people to become monsters. The most valuable asset each of us has as humans is our attention. Where we put our attention, that is where our time and energy will be. Now imagine the Yin and Yang sign. Black and white….
Free Will.
Free will is a very interesting concept. I’ve been toying and thinking about it for a while. According to the dictionary, free will is the ability to act at one’s own discretion. The ability to decide what to do independently of any outside influence. When was the last time you ever done that? What was…
Wake up.
My grandmother lived to be 76 years old. She dedicated her entire life to her family. She loved cooking for us and praying for us, and you could see on her face that she was most happy when we were united and well as a family. Our happiness brought her true joy. She did not expect…