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I want to talk to you today about that time in your life when you will meet a great person who has been through so much abuse that they can not accept and enjoy a healthy relationship. You will have to let them go. It is sad, I know, but you will have to. As…

When you reach saturation and disgust with your current situation, you will move out of your comfort zone. I can not live like this anymore! – what a powerful statement. The friends you hang around with—all those discussions about nothing leading nowhere. Feeling dumber and exhausted every time you leave one of those interactions, and…

Whatever you are chasing, if it is good and meaningful, you will be tested. Traps will be set for you up, down, left, right and center. Frustration and loneliness are going to try and crush you at every step. It may seem like life, the universe, and God Himself are plotting against you to convince…

It is not my fault. We just met, and you started treating me like the enemy. We just met, and you want to make me feel responsible for what someone did to you five years ago. I don’t want to be on the receiving end of everything bad that ever happened to you. Why would…

You know what, I don’t need this, there are plenty of fish in the sea! Yes, baby, you are right. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but they are not all friendly or sound, and to be honest, with that attitude, I think you’ll run into some sharks and killer whales. Listen, if…

I had a fascinating conversation with a lady friend of mine the other day. Relationships, of course. What else? She told me that she is very disappointed in men these days. Why Angelica (that is not her real name)? I asked. Well, Cristian (that is my real name :))), I go on a lot of…

People told me, and they still do, that life is like a game of chess. I never saw it that way. That may be why I never had the patience to learn the game of chess. Chess is purely intellectual and cold. I can see the board at all times. Every piece has a designated…

God is never going to meet you where you are. You have to go meet God where He is, and that is because He is God, and you are not. Hi’s universe, Hi’s rules. Jeremiah 29:13:  “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” An excellent way to show…

Being single sucks. If you tell me that you are living your best life as a single person, I must tell you that I don’t believe you. I’m not saying that you are lying. I am saying that you never experienced love. I was married for five years, and I am now divorced and single…

I love talking to atheists about God. It is so much fun. The discussion usually starts like this: Them: “So, Cristian, you say you believe in God? You believe there is an old man up in the sky with a notepad constantly writing down what you do right or wrong and listening to prayers all…