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I really don’t like the term “overthinking” or “overthinkers.” Let me explain why. Well, first of all, what is the right amount of thinking on a problem or a situation? How do you even measure the amount of thinking? What is the metric on that? Is it like seven thoughts on a crisis, an idea,…

Success is a really relative, open-ended subject and an individual thing.  For some of us, success means retiring at 40 or living in a big mansion and owning a car collection. For some of us, success is being a good parent. Going on fishing trips three times a year and face painting once a week….

I hear the word healing used quite often when it comes to personal development, and to be frank and honest with you, I don’t like it. Let me explain why. The word healing implies sickness, and it also implies losing something you had, and now that you are healed, you don’t have it anymore. Trauma…

This is one of the most powerful and beautiful things I have read in my entire life! “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It’s our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant,…

People will devour you if you let them and then complain about the fact that you did not taste so good. Listen. Don’t get me wrong. It is always better to be a good person, but you need to take care of yourself; otherwise, people are going to walk all over you. The takers never…

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I have no idea where you are on your life journey. I don’t know in what season of life this text finds you. Life is cyclical. There is a season where everything you touch turns to gold. It seems that everything you want just falls into place without too much effort…

You are exactly where you need to be because you need to be exactly where you are. Listen … You, my friend, are all in. Whether you want it or not no one gets out of life alive. All in. Do you want to play your hand? How? With intention or just like a leaf…

“Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.”Winston Churchill Persistence is continuing in an opinion or course of action despite difficulty or opposition. Nothing good or great has ever been acquired without this superpower. I call it a superpower because it is so rare in people, hard to obtain, and almost…

Proverbs 3: 5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart      and lean not on your own understanding;   in all your ways submit to him,      and he will make your paths straight. In other words, learn to trust the process. I don’t know your goals and what you are trying to…

There is a quote I like by Miyamoto Musashi, and it goes like this: “It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.” I interpret that as advice to always stay ready, especially as a man. Work on your mind, your body, and also your soul. Start and…