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A “Boss” is usually behind the pack in a chariot, devouring spoils and resources he did not put any real effort into acquiring with a whip in their hand. The leader is not just in front of the pack, but also guiding and supporting the team, ensuring things get done. That is the monumental difference….

Dr. Peterson, Please, with all due respect, I am begging you to stop telling people to become monsters. The most valuable asset each of us has as humans is our attention. Where we put our attention, that is where our time and energy will be.  Now imagine the Yin and Yang sign. Black and white….

Free will is a very interesting concept.  I’ve been toying and thinking about it for a while. According to the dictionary, free will is the ability to act at one’s own discretion.  The ability to decide what to do independently of any outside influence. When was the last time you ever done that?  What was…

My grandmother lived to be 76 years old. She dedicated her entire life to her family. She loved cooking for us and praying for us, and you could see on her face that she was most happy when we were united and well as a family. Our happiness brought her true joy. She did not expect…

Faith is not tested when you are well-dressed in church, on your knees, and praying surrounded by “believers”. We can all pray there.  Faith gets tested in the desert while frustrated, bored, scared, hungry, thirsty, and alone. You know that season of life when everything seems to go against you despite your best efforts. That…

Forgiving others from the depths of your soul is not just a blessing or a gift but a powerful act of self-liberation. It’s one of the most selfish and empowering things you can learn to do in your life. The Buddha once said: “Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” If I have wronged you…

Your most profound battles, the ones that truly test your mettle, are fought and won or lost in the depths of your own being. It’s a testament to your personal strength and resilience. There are no three-headed dragons outside following you and waiting to eat you alive. From the outside, all that comes is temptation. The…

“No relationship, no problems” – gets posted quite often, and it amuses me every time I see it. It is true that a serious and committed relationship has its challenges. It is not easy to consider someone else’s view of the world.  It is true that time passes, and the two people who met at…

In our arrogance, we all think we need or should be the first violin in God’s orchestra of life. You may need to be that fat kid with the big drum in the back.  Are you ok with that role? Are you focused enough in that role to give us the perfect “bang” at the…

Faith gets tested because faith is one of those things that are easier said than done. Submitting to God and the flow of life means renouncing your idea of “good or bad.” Right? You don’t get to say what is good or bad anymore, for yourself obviously, because you submitted to God and also to…