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It is normal to want to fit in. It is normal to want to be liked. It is normal to want to be appreciated. It is normal to want to be celebrated. But it is also normal to feel like an outsider if you are surrounded by idiots. Being surrounded by the wrong people is…

You can make your own luck. Among other things or concepts, this is one that took me a while to understand. I’ve heard people say that you make your own luck, but I did not understand it because luck seemed to be, to me at least, something random, like a star falling out of the…

When I hear people talk with ease about life balance, I immediately assume that inheritance or mediocrity is the place from which they make the statement. I must add that when I say inheritance, I don’t necessarily mean money. Inheritance could be love, a healthy family, or wisdom. Don’t get me wrong—I am happy for…

It never ceases to amaze me how people who have never been in your situation love giving you advice about how to get out of your situation. The advice they give is always extremely broad and useless, but you can see their faces lighting up like they solved your entire existence with one stupid statement….

I want to talk to you today about that time in your life when you will meet a great person who has been through so much abuse that they can not accept and enjoy a healthy relationship. You will have to let them go. It is sad, I know, but you will have to. As…

When you reach saturation and disgust with your current situation, you will move out of your comfort zone. I can not live like this anymore! – what a powerful statement. The friends you hang around with—all those discussions about nothing leading nowhere. Feeling dumber and exhausted every time you leave one of those interactions, and…

Whatever you are chasing, if it is good and meaningful, you will be tested. Traps will be set for you up, down, left, right and center. Frustration and loneliness are going to try and crush you at every step. It may seem like life, the universe, and God Himself are plotting against you to convince…

It is not my fault. We just met, and you started treating me like the enemy. We just met, and you want to make me feel responsible for what someone did to you five years ago. I don’t want to be on the receiving end of everything bad that ever happened to you. Why would…

You know what, I don’t need this, there are plenty of fish in the sea! Yes, baby, you are right. There are plenty of fish in the sea, but they are not all friendly or sound, and to be honest, with that attitude, I think you’ll run into some sharks and killer whales. Listen, if…

I had a fascinating conversation with a lady friend of mine the other day. Relationships, of course. What else? She told me that she is very disappointed in men these days. Why Angelica (that is not her real name)? I asked. Well, Cristian (that is my real name :))), I go on a lot of…