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After the fear of death, one of our greatest fears is the fear of success. The fear of success is greater than the fear of failure in most of us. You must teach yourself how to win. But Cristian, why do I have to learn how to win? Doesn’t that come automatically? I thought that…

I had an argument with my parents that lasted for about a week. I don’t mean we argued for a week constantly. We had two arguments on two different days, and then we just spoke on the phone, distant and monosyllabic. Throughout the week, the situation kept popping into my mind, and I dissected it…

A good thing to understand is that the most valuable commodity you and each of us have is not time. It is attention. Everything around you, good or bad, is after your attention, not your time. Because what gets your attention automatically also gets your time. Where ever you are, be there. Some people have…

Practice what you preach. From my perspective and experience on this journey called life, I try to avoid giving advice. I’m not particularly eager to advise because I understand that we are different, and our experiences and perceptions about life are different. So what advice could I give to you? I can tell you what…

Men and women are equal. Let us start from here. No. They are not.  We are over 7 billion people living together at this very moment on this planet. From all these seven billion people, there are no two equal individuals. There is no man equal to another man, no woman equal to another woman,…

“Be the person you needed when you were younger” – Melissa Ponzio. Become the adult you needed when you were a child. This is what personal development is about. Or at least it should be. You don’t work hard on yourself to become an abyss in which you drown money, possessions, shiny things, and people…

I really don’t like the term “overthinking” or “overthinkers.” Let me explain why. Well, first of all, what is the right amount of thinking on a problem or a situation? How do you even measure the amount of thinking? What is the metric on that? Is it like seven thoughts on a crisis, an idea,…

Success is a really relative, open-ended subject and an individual thing.  For some of us, success means retiring at 40 or living in a big mansion and owning a car collection. For some of us, success is being a good parent. Going on fishing trips three times a year and face painting once a week….

I hear the word healing used quite often when it comes to personal development, and to be frank and honest with you, I don’t like it. Let me explain why. The word healing implies sickness, and it also implies losing something you had, and now that you are healed, you don’t have it anymore. Trauma…

This is one of the most powerful and beautiful things I have read in my entire life! “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It’s our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant,…