Aim up. No matter the situation you are in, aim up.
The only sustainable and healthy motivation out there is self-motivation. You need to learn to motivate yourself, and you do that by collaborating with yourself.
In one of my posts, I told you that you are your only and worst enemy. And that is entirely true.
But, there is always a “but.” You don’t have to kill that enemy. You need to learn to accept that part of you. The lazy part. The part that procrastinates. That part of you that runs to comfort. You need to learn to be a good parent to yourself. Treat yourself with love and respect. And turn that enemy into your best friend and biggest ally.
That is the best thing you can do for yourself.
If you struggle to hide and beat down that “dark” or “negative” part of you, you will always be divided within yourself. That is not the goal, my friend.
The goal is to accept yourself, know yourself, improve yourself, become unified within yourself, and work as one complete, strong, and whole entity to better your life and leave a positive mark on the world.
Think about it for a second.
You, seemingly, have two sides because that is the nature of the world we live in.
Yin and Yang. When you look at that sign, you’ll see that there is a bit of Yin in Yang and a bit of Yang in Yin. You’ll also notice that Yin is nothing without Yang, and Yang is nothing without Yin.
Aim at that sign. Become that sign and become one in yourself. That is the aim in life. To become one. To become whole. To accept the whole and to express that complete and beautiful self.
With love, yours truly, Cristian.