Marriage and long-term relationships have become daunting for most people in recent years. In an era where gender roles are shifting, the rise of feminism, and the increasing demand for independence, people seem to be running away from commitments.
The idea of relationships has evolved. Traditionally, men were expected to be the breadwinners, while women were expected to stay home and care for the family. However, with the rise of feminism and gender equality, traditional gender roles are shifting. Women are now more empowered and have access to equal economic opportunities as men. This has led to the decline of the notion that women should solely rely on men for financial stability.
Moreover, with the increased economic opportunities for women, the need to get married for financial security has diminished. Women are now more independent and can support themselves. Additionally, the decline of religious influence has contributed to the shift in attitudes toward marriage and relationships.
As humans, we often tend to put ourselves first. It’s natural to look out for our interests and desires. However, when this self-interest becomes the sole focus of our lives, it can lead to a dangerous path of egocentrism and self-centeredness. This is especially true when we do not have a belief in God.
Egocentrism is the belief that one is the center of the universe and their thoughts and desires are the only ones that matter. This can be dangerous for individuals because it leads to a lack of consideration for others and can damage relationships. Without God, there is no source of humility and selflessness to counteract this egocentrism.
The role of God in developing humility cannot be overstated. Humility is the quality of being humble, and it is essential because it allows us to see ourselves and others clearly, without bias or ego. God helps us develop humility by teaching us that we are not the center of the universe and should be humble and grateful for all we have.
Our moral compass can become distorted when we lack a belief in God. Moral relativism is the belief that morality is relative to each individual and that there are no objective moral truths. This can lead to a lack of morals and focus solely on self-interest. Without God, there is no objective standard for right and wrong, which can have dire consequences for individuals and society.
Self-centeredness is the opposite of selflessness, and it is a common trait of those who lack a belief in God. Self-centered individuals focus solely on their desires and interests without regard for others. This can lead to damaged relationships and a lack of empathy and compassion.
Empathy and compassion are essential traits for individuals to possess, and they are qualities God teaches. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, while compassion is the desire to help alleviate their suffering. Without God, these qualities can be challenging to develop, leading to a lack of connection with others and a focus solely on self-interest.
In conclusion, a man without God becomes a selfish, self-centered asshole who wants only power and success and will stop at nothing—using or killing other people with no remorse. Hitler is one of those extreme examples.
A woman without God becomes a narcissistic devouring mother or a feminist. The term “narcissistic devouring mother” is often used to describe a woman who exhibits narcissistic tendencies and has an insatiable need to consume attention, love, and admiration. This type of woman views people in her life as extensions of herself. She uses them to fulfill her emotional needs and desires rather than recognizing and supporting their individuality and autonomy.
Children and partners of such a woman may feel suffocated, trapped, and depleted. They are constantly expected to meet these woman’s needs and cannot develop their own sense of self. The people in her life that can not escape may struggle with guilt, shame, and inadequacy as they can never satisfy the expectations and demands of such a woman. This kind of woman is an abis who will swallow everything around her.
- 63% of all youth suicides,
- 70% of all teen pregnancies,
- 71% of all adolescent chemical/substance abusers,
- 80% of all prison inmates, and
- 90% of all homeless and runaway children came from single-mother homes.
Without God, there is no source of humility, selflessness, empathy, or compassion to counteract the natural tendency toward self-centeredness.
Believing in God helps individuals develop positive character traits that lead to healthier relationships, a more fulfilling life, and a greater sense of purpose.
Without God, we are all “equal,” “strong,” and self-centered. But at what cost?
Yours truly, Cristian.